Kiwis: Not getting enough

[Cachondo]

Kiwis seek therapy for low sexual desire

Lack of sexual desire and infrequent intercourse are among the most common sexual problems experienced by New Zealanders, according to a new academic study.

Massey University student Laura Buckley carried out the study in conjunction with Sex Therapy New Zealand (STNZ) to identify the types of sexual concerns for which help was sought and to explore whether they are being diagnosed appropriately.

The study found that those making referrals for sexual problems often focused on the symptom such as lack of desire and early ejaculation.

Traditional models of sex therapy had also been symptom oriented.

"We have to look beyond the symptom and find what the cause is in order to bring about lasting change," STNZ director Robyn Salisbury said.

"While New Zealanders have taken on board the medical language of contemporary sex therapy and are now talking more openly about sexual dysfunction, I believe it will always be our style to demand a down to earth, practical approach to sorting out the problem.

"What this research tells us is that is exactly what is needed.

"One man's erectile dysfunction may result simply from not enough direct stimulation; another's may indicate that one or both partners have not learned how to become more intimate after the initial lust period has burned itself out, a third may have a plumbing problem and require medication."

The study found lack of desire and infrequent intercourse were the two most common reasons New Zealanders sought sex therapy.

When this was explored in therapy these sexual concerns were found to require an integrated treatment approach in order to deal with the underlying relationship and intimacy concerns.

Ms Salisbury said the study identified that both New Zealanders and professionals working in the sex therapy field needed to always consider a broader relationship context when finding solutions to sexual concerns.

"The potential complexity of sexual problems suggests that specialist help is required to enable the appropriate solution to be found."

[DelusionsOfGrandeur]

Quite the shame, with all those lovely sheilas running around over there.

Apparently it's not all paradise in the land of silk pantied honeys.

[Hobbesy]

Sheilas is what they call them in Aussie land, not here.

And don't you look at me.

[deanwell]

Originally Posted by Hobbesy

Sheilas is what they call them in Aussie land, not here.

And don't you look at me.

Bollocks. I've heard them called sheilas here for bloody years. It used to be common 30 years ago but not so now although it's still used.

Why don't Aussies take their sheilas to the cricket? Because they keep jumping onto the field to eat the grass.